[LADIES READ] 10 Ways To Know If YourPartner Is A Player

Widespread research have shown that relationships of
today no longer last as expected, many a times several
relationships crumble like a pack of cards just after few
days or weeks.
According to latest findings by Tango, these
relationships don’t last not because of lack of chemistry
between the partners but because of failure of those
involved in such relationships to find out what their
partners really want before entering into such
relationships.
Picture this scenario. You met your dream guy on a
Monday night at a social gathering. He couldn’t keep his
eyes off you. There was instant chemistry. He asks you
out for Friday night, which appears to be a good sign as
it’s one of the weekend evenings. He takes your phone
number and sends you a flirty text message on your ride
home saying how he can’t wait until Friday night. You
call your best friend with great enthusiasm about the
new guy you just met. Your body is tingling with
excitement. Is your imagination getting the best of
you? Perhaps, yes.
The following hints would determine if it was love at
first site or if your upcoming date is adding you to his
list of girls:
1. He Cancels Your First Date:
Unless he’s truly sick or has a business meeting out of
town, your dream date may have been caught up in the
moment when he double-booked you. If you hear
excuses like he has the flu, or a relative came in from
out of town at the last minute, if he’s really that into
you, he won’t break your very important first date.
2. He asks you out for week-night dates only: If
you become the Wednesday night girl, you should be
wondering what he is doing on a Friday or Saturday
night. After a few dates, it’s only appropriate to be on
his calendar during a weekend evening.
3. He doesn’t introduce you to his friends or
family: After a few months of dating and several
conversations for upcoming events with his friends and
family that he never follows up on, don’t believe he is
going alone. There’s probably someone else that is
higher on the totem pole in his arms. You aren’t his
number one girl. Sure, it sounds logical, but he’ll keep
you hanging with promises of scheduling another event
to take you to, to make sure he can still get you into
bed.
4. He calls you last minute for dates: If your
dream date calls you the day of, or even the day before
a date to get together, don’t get excited and change your
plans with your girl friends to accommodate him. You
aren’t a priority if you aren’t on the calendar at least
several days beforehand. He may be asking several
women out at the same time. Whoever responds
first may end up being his booty call. You’re a busy girl.
Let him know he needs to plan several days in advance
if he wants to see you.
5. He consistently cancels dates at the last
minute: If you are getting cancelled on the day of your
date more than once, it’s a red flag. Don’t put up with it.
The dog didn’t eat his paper.
6. He Introduces You As His Friend: If you are
sleeping with a guy who doesn’t call you his
girlfriend, significant other, or other pet name in
public, you’re just a friend with benefits. Who cares
that he brings you flowers? It’s time to get out of your
dream world and find a man who wants to call you his
girl.
7. He disappears for days at a time: When your
guy goes AWOL, especially on the weekends, and
reappears with no explanation as if nothing is wrong,
don’t give him the benefit of the doubt. He’s more than
a magician. He’s a professional juggler and quite
simply, a player.
8. He’s vague and mysterious: While you might
think it’s sexy to have a little mystery in the
relationship, when he’s consistently vague about his
whereabouts, he’s hiding something. A guy who is into
you and isn’t juggling multiple women at a time, will
have no problem freely sharing his information and will
tell the truth. His stories will be consistent. If you catch
him in a lie, chances are he’s lying to other women as
well.
9. He often mentions other women as his
business associates: If your guy consistently goes to
business mixers in the evening to meet with potential
female clients, chances are he’s going on a date. He’ll
likely be referring to you as the same.
10. He refuses to get tested for an STD: Don’t buy
the line that he’s not sleeping with anyone else but you.
If you are moving towards an intimate relationship, get
tested before the clothes end up on the floor in a night
of passion. Practice safe sex, period.
Don’t have unprotected sex without being tested. It’s
about respect, romance, and responsibility. The classic
player is likely to be having sex with multiple partners
without protection. All his women think they are the
only one. Don’t get caught up in a moment of passion
that you might regret.